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Saturday, August 23, 2008
im sorry if you cant take my harsh comments.but if theres a problem, i like to talk it out.wanted to talk face to face, but you dont like it so straight forward.ohwell, i just have to do it your way.after so many times of on&off quarrels, i started to reflect.is it my fault?im not saying that its your fault,so dont have to get so uptight.since you know that i have this character in me, where i talk without thinking most of the times, you should get over it pretty fast.i mean, we're GIRLFRIENDS right?the way i define gf is:enjoy all good&bad times together.be there when you're most down.gossip about anyone except for our clique.& i think that 重色轻友 is fine.i dont mean to be rude.but we all know very well that, if you have a boyfriend,you'll do the same.you wont know,till then we'll see.i know your worries.once we go off with our bfs, she will go off with her close fren.and you'll be left alone.but,you can always meet up with your other friends.i mean,in school you have us.out of school you have them.remember the topic we were discussing about the other day?everyone have a friend who they're comfortable with. their "best" friend.someone who know them very well.in this case,meryl is my "best" friend.as a best friend,you'll never mind their bad points but bring out their good points.you can tell them your darkest secret w/o hesitating.because you know that they'll not betray you.having this best friend around, you be able to tell yourself,hey,i dont have to worry that my clique will start to distant me.i dont have to worry that my bf will leave me. 'cause at the end of the day,she'll be there for me.one thing you have to know.she may be your best friend,but its doesnt mean that you're her best friend too.someone told me,"friendship is like a BGR. you have to give w/o expecting any return.."so just let it be..if you dont happen to have this best friend, you still have your family.i believe that nothing is thicker than blood bonds.no matter what happens, YOUR FAMILY WILL BE THERE FOR YOU!they may seem to be reluctant to listen to you pouring out your sorrows, but trust me this time, they'll never leave you in the lurch.
someone told me,"you can only trust yourself. because you know that,you'll never get betrayed."
well, thats if you dont trust anyone else.
and thats something scary.
if you dont trust anybody,dont wait for anybody to trust you.
some piece of advice,
if you feel that you're being left out,you can find things to do to entertain yourself.
youo dont have to be in a group gossiping together all the time.
if you're left out,you can always take out a book and read! thats what i normally do. :DD
or play some games on your handphone.
or sms people who'll keep you entertained.
or eat! another of my doings :DD
you dont have to be invited to join in a conversation.
you just have to blend in and enjoy!
if you decided not to, you cant blame anyone for leaving you out.
ANYWAY,I THINK THAT....
we're all too childish.
seriously dont you feel that all of us are being so petty over small matters?
we get angry over being left out, over receiving attitudes from someone else,over the tone we used to speak,the way we just ignore someone else..
i can predict, 5years down the road,when we think about all this quarrels, we'll be laughing our heads off about how childish we had been..
i guess its time for you to reflect now.
&this thing is between you&me.
nobody else can help us..
if you consider me as your GIRLFRIEND, i think we should face this problem together and get over it..
its just a few months away till we part.
we may not even be seeing each other that often already.
so,cherish this few months.
lastly,treat others how you want to be treated.
if you give us attitude,we'll.....
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